You don't have to choose between being gentle or being fierce. Both exist in nature and both exist in you.


Launch event

29 -02-2020

Are you ready for a Fierce Lifestyle ?

Living a Fierce Lifestyle is about feeling Fierce, feeling good about yourself, your (play)partner and the attitude towards everybody else… Because when you live this lifestyle you’ll feel strong, empowered and Fierce.

More info further down the page


Are you ready for FIERCE LIFESTYLE?

There are so many parties in the fetish scene where the music is commercial and the party is all about seeing and being seen. That’s not what Fierce Lifestyle is about. We create energetic parties, where sexual freedom, underground music and erotic theatre are the core elements. So jump in, drop your inhibitions and enjoy the ride! Flirt, dance, play, flow and explore! With a naughty smile on our face we invite you to become part of our flourishing community! Fierce Lifestyle Events are total experiences of the senses.


Fierce Lifestyle Events go beyond partying. Our events are packed with with workshops and activities. We create unique experiences, combining our events with art, theater, workshops and other exciting activities.

Music and more…

The music Fierce presents varies all night long, but is always underground and strictly non-commercial. Both the main dance area and the large smoking area will have their own DJ. The soundsystem will be provided by ETV-Soundsystem Tannoy/Funktion 1 collab speakers.

Wybert (ETV Soundsystem, The Black Hole)
Our Resident DJ and Soundsystem provider will be closing the night with some true Tekno sounds. The true Freax will know this man and the sound he brings to a rave like this one!


During this event you can participate in several workshops. Our instructors [Bobbeldorp] and [4longsessions] will provide you with:

From 00:15 – 02:00 bondage [Bobbeldorp]
From 01:00 – 02:15 workshop squirting techniques [4longsessions]


The sybian machine will be available during the entire event and is set up in a separate room where a Fierce Lifestyle crew member can help you operate the sybian and will make sure that the sybian is cleaned and disinfected in between every ride.


Handcrafted kinky toys, accessories and all kinds of erotic art, can be bought from a small stand at the entrance area. All Fierce Lifestyle products are made from (mostly) recycled materials.

Who is this party for?

Our target audience are of all sexual orientations and mainly open minded couples, single ladies and groups/packs of friends who are into making contact with other people and want to have a great time. Solo single men who want to enter the party are welcome but have to send an e-mail to the Fierce Lifestyle crew to pre-register and need a confirmation e-mail in return (no confirmation = no entrance).

The Fierce Lifestyle crew is easy to approach and knows how to have a good time both on the dancefloor as well as in the play areas.


The dresscode is ‘dress less to impress’. Fetish wear is strongly encouraged. Casual and streetwear is NOT allowed. Feel free to contact us when in doubt about the dresscode.


Entrance: €30,- this includes 2 drinks
Locker: €5,00- deposit
Tokens: €2,50 hard liquor = 2 token
Towels can be rented for 1 token.
Tokens not spend can be returned for cash when returning the locker key.

Tickets are only available at the door and can not be pre-ordered.

Where & when

We are proud to host our launch party at Paradise club in the Hague! Owner Ron is one of the finest (and our favorite) club hosts. If you want to check out the venue visit the website:

Paradise club Adres:

Thomsonlaan 107 – 2565 HZ Den Haag
Date: 29-02-2020
From 22:00h till 04:00h